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today who won’t meet me because I live 30 miles away. He has his own business so I know he could get time but he will not drive into the city. His date must live in his town (which he mentions is mostly married people) or meet him halfway. I would meet someone halfway for the first dates but would like to think that if I was dating someone they would have the manners to pick me up at my wwwAdultFriendFinder phone to put a stop to the calls. The woman on the other end would NOT take my “sorry, changed my mind” for an answer and proceeded to badger me with questions that I found very personal. I finally had to get angry and yell at her to just stop calling me. I found them to be very very pushy and I would never use a company like this! Shame on them!!!!!!! Reviewed By Delbert Houston Sex Male wwwAdultFriendFinder date after that. Met another woman on the site who made the first contact by sending me the first email. We ended up dating for a couple months. But the relationship was all physical and didn’t prove to be long-lasting. It’s hard to tell how many people on these sites are seriously interested in meeting someone, and how many are just on a fishing expedition. For men, you will probably get wwwAdultFriendFinder but the women never look that good. If the woman looks like an 8 out of ten, she is probably a 5 out of ten. However she looks in the glamout shot, minus that number by three. For me, I spent approx $60 Canadian. Went on dates with women who lied about their body type. Had some wasted dates, and had a few one night stands. Was it worth it, if I just wanted to get laid, then yes. But, I wanted wwwAdultFriendFinder

relationship. Odd, because he is divorced just like I am. I tried to put a word in and quickly responded “Eileen your interupting me, I’m not done with my thought”. Yikes how rude can you get. I just want to say something and had to try to break into his speech. He is a good looking guy but has a lot of baggage (3 kids under 18) so he isn’t a great catch himself. I talked to another guy filled out a form online but changed my mind and did not complete the form. I did not submit and give OK the form at all. However, my phone number went through. Great Expectations began calling me anyway…I chose not to answer. After calling me for the 20th+ time…leaving messages that I did not return and then using different numbers and restricting the number, I finally answered the just not interested in never-married thirtysomething women with an infant baby who are looking for a new guy. One of women I met on this site, I drove over 45 minutes for our first date. She was extremely late for no good reason. Sucked to be me as I was stuck drinking Bud drafts by myself in some strange bar in a strange town. Once she showed up, it was okay but there wasn’t any second in really good shape or what us men would consider average(good body, just not Miss Fitness) Average: this means 30 to 40 pounds overwieght. Women who say they are average are actually fat. Slightly Overweight: This really means 60 to 80 pounds overwieght. BBW: BBW Glamour Shots: Watch out for these ones. Sure the shots are done artistically in balck and white or against some kind of background,

dates though. However in the past month I seem to be talking to nothing but self loving jerks. I am a 40 year old female who is slim and considered attractive but my shyness and lack of social life keep me from meeting anyone. My job doesn’t offer much opportunities to meet anyone either. I talked to one guy who dominated the who conversation in giving his speech about what makes a sucessful me more to retrieve my money. Attorney fees are not cheap. I Hope someone will read this before they make the same mistake I made, as did hundreds of others. Please just remember this, it’s a scam, and they do discriminate. Joe From Wylie, TX Reviewed By M C TN Sex Female Rating ***** Date March 06, 2010 permalink Visit Great Expectations I had to rate them a 1 because there is no 0!!! I be always adding new features and improvements. To get notification of if/when people read your email, you have to pay a few extra bucks, which does seem like a rip off. For guys, it takes some patience to start talking with any real women on this site. You might get a wink or two in your first couple weeks. But it probably won’t be women who are particularly enticing. No offense, but I’m not a model, so apparently I am ugly. Average Body: Women who say they are of Average Body type are always about 30 to 40 pounds overwieght. Every woman I met who said she is avaerage, is actually fat. So ladies if you are overwieght then state it. Average is not 30 to 40 pounds overweight. Heres how it works. If she says, Slim: this means she is slim or skinny Athletic: This means she is

given it instead. Of course, having read reviews of other sites, probably just about everything I said applies across the board. Reviewed By Eileen Texas Sex Female Rating ***** Date January 09, 2007 permalink Visit I have been on match for awhile now and have met some nice men although none of them seem to be interested in a real relationship or marriage. I have had many pleasant saying that one of the women was interested. This candidate was inactive but is available now. Stephanie continued to tell the interested candidate had said yes to me. Well I got to laugh on this one, ..I called this Lady, after calling her 4 times just to see if it was a scam, and sure a enough it was, that women never called me back. I paid $7995.00 for this service and now it is costing But out of the several sites I’ve used, I think it is one of the better ones. It seems to be one of the more “honest” sites – as far as giving a fair representation of the service you think you are buying. Secondly it seems to have more features than the others and is an easy-to-use site. I used it for two or three years – with several long lapses in my subscription – and they seemed to smile, you send one back, and then you spend six credits to contact them. Then nothing. Good0-bye credits Unrealistic women: Maybe this is just Kelowna and Vancouver, but the women on these sites are looking for the reformed bad buy turned good who is both rich and great looking. And these are from women who are from barely average to good looking. I am a pretty good looking guy but I am


wishing to assist Match in its efforts to puff up the apparent size of its membership rolls, I took down my profile when I cancelled my paid membership; besides, by removing the profile, I could not inadvertantly suck someone into a wasted subscription trying to contact me. By the way, you’ll notice that I gave Match a 1-Star rating. Had there been a 0-Star selection, that’s what I’d have www.AdultFrien have any problems , within six months I would have my soul mate, ( ha,ha,ha) the jokes on me. When I told her (Stefanie) that I was going to sue them for discrimination, and false pretences she sort of laughed and said you can’t sue us read your contract. I have had many encounters with Stefanie regarding the selection of women, and when she got notice of me suing them, she sent me an email www.AdultFrien open mind and meet others with a similar mindset. I don’t like some of the negative aspects Match has brought out in me, and I think a well deserved break is in order. Time to get more out into the real world and let the chips fall where they may! Reviewed By David Seattle Sex Male Rating ***** Date April 21, 2006 permalink Visit Like any OD site, has it’s share of detractors. www.AdultFrien do it soon. Anyways, the website is Happy Dating! Reviewed By John Kelowna Sex Male Rating ***** Date August 23, 2005 permalink Visit Lavalife I decided to try out Lavalife because it worked well for a friend of mine. The Positives: It on;y costs 6 credits to do the intial mail message, but messages after that are free. Now the Negatvies: Fake Profiles: They send you a www.AdultFrien

to people who can’t respond because they’re not paying members??) without at least making a buck on the deal. Hey, at least Match does indicate the last time a member was on-line at the site, which some others do not do, but to be truly transparent and above board, Match needs also to indicate if the person you’re thinking of paying to contact is a paying member and able to respond. Not not to my choosing……She would tell me to pick some anyway , just to see what they say. I told her most of the women that I chose said no to me, and after a while I started to see the profiles I read did not match the person …….most of these women were looking for that chip- and dale type of guy, looks, body, and money. I did not have any of that…But Stefanie told me I would not issues or other things, as it seems that there odds of a positive connection are waning with the decline of the site. At any rate, I think I will be bringing my journey to a close soon. I feel that it is more likely for me to meet the ‘one’ off-line than on-line. I think Match could be effective in just meeting friends without any dating expectations, if you go into it with a very with. Me and my friend John went on a few double dates with women we met on and there was a lot less stress. The women seemed to feel safer too. The website also has this thing called Profile Overhauler. I haven’t done it yet, but I guess they write a profile for you using all of these marketing techniques that get your more dates. They also take these really good pictures. I might


non-paying members just passing through, checking out the scene and, as non-paying members, unable to answer any communication. The thing that most ticked me off with Match was its offer to inform me when my e-mails were read…for an added fee. That should have been part of the basic package. Perhaps Match doesn’t want to let its members know just how many messages are going unread (sent www.AdultFr telling me how good looking I was and that in no time I would meet a girl. She told me she would work with me and if I found a girl I was interested in she would contact that person to have her check me out, once again (BS). After a few months I started to call Stefanie, and was telling her that most of the Ladies that I would be interested in are all inactive, and the choices they had were www.AdultFr attraction, but it’s not as if I have found only a few men to be worthwhile to write to. I believe thatI have contacted guys numbering well into the hundreds during my experience with the site. My response rate was never high to begin with but it only continues to deterioriate. If I struggle to receive positive mutual interest on Match, I feel sorry for women who really struggle with weight www.AdultFr others, and some i would cross the street to avoid but i always try to play nice…perhaps that’s the secret Reviewed By Brad Phoenix, AZ Sex Male Rating ***** Date August 24, 2005 permalink Visit Lavalife I used to have such a hard time finding dates on and the blind dates were painful. I found a good website that will hook you up with someone in your area to go on a double-date www.AdultFr

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out all the profiles that show no activity within a week, or no activity for three-plus weeks. When I was paying Match to help me search for someone, be assured that I wasn’t checking in only once a week, let alone once a month! And, I found that many who are listed as active within a reasonable time–I consider “reasonable” to be three or fewer days for someone paying for a service–are www AdultFrindFinder com card and told me to look over some photos of some of the members. Then she ran my card and came in with a contract. She would not let me read it and kept distracting me. At the same time she was telling me where to sign or initial rushing through the paperwork. When I asked about certain paragraphs she would say don’t worry about that, it just means this or that, just initial it. She kept www AdultFrindFinder com e-mails I have sent out is like pulling teeth. I think that Match unfortunately has become a number’s game, and that the more attractive men on the site (the ones who I think I’m in the same league with (but apparently not), expect the picture of a supermodel. Otherwise, what you have written is not even read (at least that appears to be the case with me). Yes, there has to be a mutual physical www AdultFrindFinder com in Toronto) and if i don’t respond? it usually means i’m not interested and i have learned that responding even nicely only encourages the conversation i’m trying to avoid or maybe i’m busy..or tired…or just not paying as much attention as i should or maybe my kitchen just caught fire either way…i’ve met some wonderful people and some wonderfully strange people dated some,befriended www AdultFrindFinder com

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surprise, one did, and we ended up meeting. I don’t know if there’s a lesson there or not. It appears to me that Match has an “inventory” of millions of available people, but relatively few of them are active, paying members; therefore, the vast majority of those attactive people you joined Match to meet are nothing more than pictures in a catalog, not potential significant others. Check www AdultFriendFinder cm ages of 35 to 50. She said Oh! No problem, we have many Ladies like that (that was BS!) She told me that they run background checks on all members to make sure they don’t have a criminal record, and to verify they are not married. (that’s BS also.) She sold me on this plan which I did not need and told me after six months and I would have my soul mate, Yeah Right! She asked for my credit www AdultFriendFinder cm it seems to me that being just ‘cute’ is simply not good enough in attracting the guys I find attractive on the site. I keep myself in very good shape & I do receive a fair amount of positive attention walking around my town. I have several photos posted with my profile and though I do receive a large amount of winks/e-mails, trying to get a positive response from the numerous amounts of www AdultFriendFinder cm believe i read any promises anywhere on the site secondly, there are good people there, but like actual “real” life it does take effort to find them… and being angry and bitter about “fake” profiles and unreturned smiles? grow up and move happens to everyone all the time you either make the decision to spend the credits or you don’t…and it is cheaper than a night out (at least www AdultFriendFinder cm

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